olly20082 (olly20082) wrote in vaginismus,

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Hi All

I'm 23 and I am currently on step 2 of the program from vaginismus.com. However, my boyfriend is giving me mixed signals. Mainly because he says that he wants to have sex and work through the program with me, but at the same time he wants space and doesn't want to spend too much time with one another. It's frustrating because I feel like I'm doing a lot for him when he doesn't even necessarily want to hang out with me everyday. I just recently talked to him about how often we hang out and at who's house, and it turned into a big discussion. So, I'm not sure how to breach the discussion about how I feel about sex right now. He has also let me know that no sex after a certain amount of time will cause him to leave and find someone else. This would break my heart, but it seems like if we have this talk, he'll just walk away.
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