Hello all. I just joined and wanted to introduce myself. I'm really happy to have found this community because (as you all know) it's tough talking about vaginismus. I'm 29 years old, and I lost my virginity at 19. I've always been able to have sex comfortably until about a year and a half ago. I'm not sure what happened, though I think it may be connected to my chonic yeast infections and vaginitis. So far, no doctor has given me any diagnosis, which is why I think I might have vaginismus and/or vulvar vestibulitis. I've found a new doctor that I like, and I hope she'll be able to help me with my diagnosis. For now, I have the book and dilator set from vaginismus.com and I'm working on that. I just feel very lucky that I'm married to one of the most supportive and loving men I have ever known. My husband has been with me when I was able to have sex, and he's stayed with me even though penetration is unthinkable right now. It's really tough on him, and sometimes I just feel so terrible about it.