So I tried out my new dilators today. First one isn't a problem. the second one sucks. It stings a lot and it seems like no matter what I do I can't relax. I can make it go in all the way, it just stings starting about 1/2 way in and I feel really tight. I've tried consciously tightening around it for 15 seconds and then releasing, (the way I do with my sensor in PT) but I can't release all the way and actually relax. I just return to the same tension I had before I started to squeeze. How do you deal with the stinging? I feel like the more I try, the more it stings, so the tighter I get. Any advice?